we should put bullets through the heads of brainless men

I cannot, for the life of me, begin to comprehend why some guys cannot understand that girls simply may not want to dance with them in clubs.

I received a question in my formspring account a few months back from a guy who asked (something along the lines of) 'why do girls get so bitchy when guys try to dance with them in clubs?' He then followed up with 'if you don't want to get touched or dance with guys in clubs, then don't even club.'

To which, I say 'IS YOUR BRAIN IN YOUR ASS!?'

Guys seem to have the mentality that girls go to clubs for the sole purpose of hooking up. I'm sorry to disappoint you, guys, but not all girls do that. And even if they were, haven't you heard about this little thing called 'quality control'? We don't just let any guy dance with us (or grope us, for that matter). We can choose whoever we decide to talk to. If a girl rejects you? Well, you probably didn't meet the cut then. Leave with your last shreds of self respect. Guys who get confrontational and diss girls for being 'proud' or 'high and mighty' for rejecting them are deluded children. Are you guys trying to tell me YOU would accept ANY GIRL that comes your way with no regard to choices? Yeah, probably so.. Seeing how you guys think with your dicks.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is that us, girls, have the freedom to decide who we wish to acknowledge and if you get rejected, blame nobody but yourself. Don't go hating on us.

Then there are the guys who come up stealthily behind girls and start slowly grinding us and here's the best part - when we notice and turn to glare at the guy, he looks away nonchalantly and acts like he didn't do anything.

HELLO!? Do you think we are stupid? Do you think we don't have the balls to smash your face in?

All I'm saying is that us girls are entitled to a night of fun and enjoyment without guys raining on our parades. We should be able to walk through a crowd without being groped or grinded or shouted at for telling a guy to stick it up where it fits.

If men say that girls should expect these things to happen in clubs and thus, do not have the right to complain, then these men really should try discussing that with the singapore law enforcement. Because if you touch the wrong damn girl in a club and she decides to take it up with the authorities, you're gonna have to go through a load of shit to clear your name.

So smarten up, guys. Know your place and keep your hands where we can see them.